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I understand that you can be confused and evaluating some time after break up, but 2 years after and with having i am not sure if he still is with that girl, but probably another relationship…. If you were contributing to your arguments, what can you say you have done to make sure you change your behaviors? He said that he know what he is losing and will never find anyone better than me but he cant be in relationship with me.

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You can read her for her thoughts on business, marketing, and culture. I said you just came here to break up with me you why would you get me a new one. I was so angry because of the way he was ending it. I refused and asked if he was just done with me and he walked out and left. I understand you have stuff you need to figure out. I feel dumb for texting but i wanted to Let him know I understand. He seemed really in love just the day before this happened. He had off moments, sure, but he also had so many on moments. We are compatible, friends, extremely attracted to each other, have similar interests, it just seemed like we were so lucky. He is definitely going through a lot in his life right now, so that might be part of it. But he was always the one talking about marriage and our future, even just a few days before this happened. I really felt different about him and that we were meant to be. My boyfriend recently went through a divorce and has 2 kids…. He ended our relationship 2 weeks ago and no contact since. He said he thinks maybe he just needs time. Belinda July 18, 2017 at 3:42 am Separating from someone you love is literally like dying a slow death. The sleepless nights, the hopeless days, the waves on loneliness and grief. A little over 3 months ago my boyfriend ended our 7 year relationship. There was never any disrespect in this relationship. No cheating, no lying, no disrespect or abuse of any kind. But Over the years, the one nagging doubt he had about us seemed to undo us in the end. I was 17 years older than him. The day I learned about our age difference i should have ended it then. Instead, I went on to have one of the most soul satisfying and magical relationships of my life. Then I realize by their example. That if someone truly loves will come back to you and wants you in their life, heaven and earth will not stop it. Many days I feel like the only purpose I served in this mans life was to watch him mature and see him gain confidence and see him get ready for the next woman. Why has life dealt me such unfair cards. The last stating his love for me yet merely two weeks will come back to you disappearing without explanation or response, just a claim he is having doubts. We saw each other on Facebook. We decided we could not have an open relationship because we had too many mutual friends and exes from our past. We tried not to let our feelings get in the way but that is impossible. After I expressed my feelings for him I noticed a change in him. You just have to have a little faith. And if not, I would live my life to the fullest and meet someone else. Taticake May 17, 2017 at 9:58 am My ex broke up with me a month ago. He knew that if we continued on then he knew he would be with me forever. But I feel like what we had was truly special and the breakup was unexpected. The night before he was cuddling with me and telling me how much he loved me and all. And will come back to you made me food and we watch things on Netflix together :. I love him but I have to move on. Claudia Almaraz May 3, 2017 at 1:17 pm Hi Jai. I can completely resonate with you. I too met a wonderful man on line. We had a great connection this went on and off for a month and half as he kept pulling away. So in February this month I decided to let him go completely. No calls no textingno contactthe he came back. Everything was going great then all of sudden once again he pulled away. Stephanie Arellano April 26, 2017 at 2:51 pm I am 18, and he is 18 as well. Once it had ended with the other girl, I noticed he made much will come back to you of an effort to talk to me, would make any excuse to talk to me and even an assistant manager took notice, and even encouraged him to ask me out on a date since I was a good girl and worth it. So this past November, he asked for my phone number and although I was apprehensive to talk to him in that way since we were coworkers, I gave it a chance because I knew I had feelings for him too. So we talked for a bit, and then went out on a date, it went really well, it was fun and cute. Of course it hurt me hearing him say that, but I had no choice but to let him go. It was hard, but I still appreciated the fact that he still made an effort to talk to me and check on me as well, just not daily. I knew I still wanted him so I said yes. We both wanted it, and were glad the chance came again for us to be together. We wen out for about 5 weeks, seeing each other at least once or twice a week. Felt for sure that I would be his girlfriend, he even started calling me his girlfriend. But me being by his side and seeing me helped. But we were still normal around each other, but it seemed like from one day to the next, he changed. He was completely distant from me, when I met with him on our break at college, there was really no affection from him but I shook it off. But I truly dont think our park will come back to you out yet, my best friend feels that he will come back but she could be just saying that. Even if he did, which I highly doubt, would it be wise to take him back even though I still have all this affection and care I want to give to him. I feel like he just let me go too abruptly and too soon. And at first I was very apprehensive because we were coworkers. But I decided to give it a go because I did like him also. We went out on one date after talking for a few weeks. It went really good, it was comfortable and constant conversation. It was hard for me to hear will come back to you. He still managed and made an effort to talk to me and check on me just not as often. That he wanted to give us another shot since he was truly ready. I knew I wanted to be with him. And I felt confident so I said yes. Seeing each other at least once or twice a week. Getting closer and a little more intimate. He made me so happy, and treated me really good. However he got into a car accident and ended up messing up his shoulder badly. Since will come back to you accident he was depressed because it affected him, and he opened up to me about that, but then things in his family got pretty rough and added to him feeling depressed. And I understood as to why he was being a little more distant cause he just had so much going on. We were touchy-feely one day and then the next he started being completely distant with me. And if he did which I highly doubt, is it even wise to take him back a third time. Ann April 13, 2017 at 8:50 pm I met someone on match. We talked for over a month before I would meet him. However the second date he told me he was stepping way back. Anyway long story short I just texted him I have to take a step back since he did. I wanted to tell him I love him but I did will come back to you. I know he was emotionally connected to me as he told me. Maybe he was questioning his life and if he really wanted this right now. Anyway to be respectful to myself I let him go gracefully. Even if he thinks it is silly. I pray it is meant to be but Ibput this inGods hands. I love myself too much to hang on and I love him. I did it for him… Love let him go. I tried few cheap spells but to no avail then I ordered the most powerful love spell from dr. I recommend his love spell to couples in need of help. He just drifted away and then refused to have any discussion about what he thought was not working. I had to let it go for my own sanity. He left me for someone else and we had not been in touch for 10 years. When I moved out of the flat we shared, i asked me not to be in touch with me either again. I did not want him to mess up with my mind any further. It hurt, I felt rejected, humiliated and unloved. I worked on myself, reflected on the life we shared and what the issues would have been, and little by little rebuilded some kind of confidence. I did great on the other aspects of my life, not on my love life but 1 years ago i finally forgave myself and moved on. I was stronger and ready for a steady relationship. My social life went even better. I was finally ready to date and put myself out there and have expectations from a relationship. And Boom, the ex emailed me few months ago … 10 years later. I always thought that we were meant to be but i had to let him go and figure things out. Right now, we are not talking but i feel that this is not will come back to you end of it. Am i willing to give it another try, when he is ready yet. Maybe but i am open to love again and if it is not him, it will be someone else. Will come back to you met this guy from an online dating site in early January of this year, and we finally met up and hit it off. And after our first date, I instantly felt something for him. So he started calling me nearly everyday over the course of 4 weeks, and he would text me everyday to check in and see how my day was going. We saw each other 2-3 a week over 4 weeks—whenever we had free time, we would spend it together. That showed me that he cared and wanted to help me in any way he could. And I knew all of this going into it, but I saw potential in us, so I accepted him for all that he was. Anyway, I reacted very viscerally and I seriously regret it. But I could still tell that he wanted to continue seeing me and getting to know me. So the next afternoon, I sent him a text apologizing for my reaction, telling him that respect and understand his situation, because I do. And will come back to you I want to continue getting to know him. And I have to live my own life and not feel guilty for how things transpired between us. Thanks, Kimberly, for your positive perception of when someone you really like or love pulls away from you. He said he needs to figure himself out and thinks we need some space. We traveled, explored new places together, attend college together. Although recently he had just turned 21 and still keeps switching what he wants to be and do in life. Just completely blindsided by it because the day before seemed nothing more than normal. Drsh February 24, 2017 at 9:54 am I hv been wit my boyfriend for 8 years now and we hv lived together for 8 years. Lauren l February 22, 2017 at 5:07 am I was left yesterday by my person. We havent has the easiest relationship. It was very hard for me to will come back to you around to. It was new so it caused some issues. I had an awful childhood and an awful past relationship making me have trust issues. I told him that i dont trust him 100% and he left. He said a relationship without trust is nothing. I agree but i just need more time to let him in. Our relationship is amazing though. I treat him like a king, our sex is out of this world. He just told me two days ago that he has never loved anyone like this, that he cherishes our relationship more than he did his past marriage. He has a huge heart but last night as he left he was so cold and cruel to me. Acting as though he is fine and that he will move on. I know he isnt okay but him acting like this hurts me so bad. The thought of him never being with me kills me. We are each others best friends. I just cant get over that he left. I want to believe he will come back because our realtionhip will come back to you great, but i know i shouldnt get my hopes up. I want to tell him that i will seek outside help for my trust issues, which i will because i know they cause issues, but i feel he doesnt care. Traci Leigh February 14, 2017 at 1:16 pm I connected with my true love a year and a half ago after knowing each other in high school 25 years ago. He was recently separated and I was taking some me time a year after a 12 year relationship and engagement. I had my doubts of starting a relationship with him until he was divorced which would take a year. In the process of selling his house that he had with his wife and 12 year old daughter, I told him he could move in with me and we can see how our relationship goes and if we have a future together. The house was big enough, he could have had his own room. His house sold in early January 2016. He moved in with me after pulling the disappearing act for a month. I believe in no-contact so, he contacted me at the end of January. I was moving way too fast and he was just recently separated that September. He is a mans man and he was having separation issues with being apart from his daughter. He would will come back to you with me for a month, leave for a month or two and live at a friends house that he rented. I kept pushing him to move in and start a future and he clearly was not ready. This type of living schedule finally ended in September when he ghosted again for two weeks. What things he had at my house, I packed his two suit cases full of his clothes and a couple of shopping bags full of clothes. He texted me after he received the shipment saying he was sorry and that he feels he is hates how his career is going and he wants to look for another job and other issues but he loves me, that we are soul mates. He said we need to start over he filed for divorce and everything seemed to be ok for the last five months. We were both going to start saving and paying off our debts so that we can buy a house together in the future after his divorce and while will come back to you were living apart. Well, he ghosted again on January 28, 2017, I have not heard from him since and it has been16 days. I know we loved each other and I do regret getting involved with him while he was only separated even though from what he told me his marriage was over and they both wanted a divorce. My gut is telling me that he is not following thru with his divorce and maybe he went back to his wife and daughter. My problem is that, he pursued me for that last two years and now, he has hurt me by disappearing. I miss him so much and the plans I thought we were going to have in the future. I have never had to worry and wonder about a man and what he is doing on a daily basis. I am too busy with my career to have to these things consume me and have to wonder what he is doing. I was inlove with him, I still am. We did everything together, we lost our virginity to each other, we wanted to marry, have children in the future. He had been working at this job for around 4 months until last week he was acting different. But I think a lot of girls would doubt and be worried, I mean my boyfriend of 5 years we started to break away I never saw him like we used to see each other every single day. Will come back to you feeling you cannot describe. I was a million different emotions. I asked him is there someone else, he said yes. I found out that night there was another girl and my boyfriend and her had been going on for quite a while at work. My boyfriend will come back to you been lying to me about places he was going and where he was because he was out with her. Will come back to you had been buying her jewellery, taking her out for breakfast all the things that we used to do now was all on her. He had been telling this girl he loved her. And she had been sending him naked photos of herself to him right after he broke up with me, I went on to his Facebook account and saw all the messages because I was so angry. I was shaking, I wanted to throw up. I know it was wrong, but I needed to. He hung up the phone on me, I just cried and cried. I said can we still be friends. I asked him will you always be there for me. I said I love you and he said I love you too, we hung up. Everything reminds me of him, everywhere I go. I miss him so much, he was my best friend. Every night he appears in my dream like the break up never happened. My dreams are me and him happy, being together in love. I just cried and said I loved him and I wanted to marry him, I wanted to have children. He is always telling me to move on, move on, move on. He will come back to you to be happy with this new girl, it hurts me even more. I just want to know if he still thinks about me. He will hold a very special place in my heart. Breathe December 21, 2016 at 7:19 pm Well I undergo the same problem. Well I was in love with a guy and he had to be in love with a girl already but he was not happy with the girl. I was talking to this guy I had met at work and I truly felt that that we had the most amazing connection. I honestly thought he could be the one. In June I left cross country for grad school and we still continued talking. Before I left I asked him where we stood and he was very unsure of the whole long distance dating. A week after I leave again he tells me that he is dating someone new and it hurts so much. How do you even deal with the pain. Is it stupid of me to want to be friends with him because I want him to come back to me someday. What if he ends up marrying this girl. Mei December 7, 2016 at 12:09 am I just wanted to share my story and hope that it helps someone else. My ex boyfriend and I dated for almost 7 years. We were high school sweethearts and hooked up in our Freshmen year. During our relationship, about 1 year was long distance, but we always managed. Towards the end of our relationship, I was in college, and he was just working. We lived together, but in an effort to finally pursue his career choices, he wanted to move. During the last few weeks, I became scared and anxious. The yelling and arguing continued. All I saw was that he was leaving me, and I never wanted to be apart from him. With my overbearing emotions, he completely shut down and altogether stopped communicating. When he finally moved out, we were on okay terms. Kissed and hugged each other goodbye, said we loved each other, and he promised to call. I got text messages, and I kept on waiting for his call which never came. Because of both of our prides and ego, we refused to call each other. I was then blocked from his cell phone. I thought that he was hurting, and he needed his space and time. Within a week, I had received the break-up text with no explanation whatsoever. Three weeks later, I decided that I would fly down to see him just to figure things out and come up with a solution. When I came back, he had told me that he already had a new girlfriend his coworker within a week of leaving. I was crushed and heart broken. I flew back home empty, cried for days, stopped eating, and just stopped living life altogether. After I had found out about his relationship, he deleted all the pictures on social media and then posted his new relationship status with his new gf. After that, he blocked me and deleted me off of all social media. For me, it became even harder to function. When you love someone so much and they leave, it will hurt. Will come back to you wanted to hold onto him so much, but the fact is we have to let go. I am very thankful to have been with him because the past 7 years were a blessing. Whether or not you want to be with your ex again is completely up to you, but we just need time to let our emotions cool and think clearly. He wanted to focus on himself, and he had goals. But I let my fear of separation get in the way of seeing a much brighter future for him. Anakole December 11, 2016 at 8:33 pm I keep reading how women are able to overcome the hurt from their previous relationships after just a few short months. I want to be the voice for the ladies who have yet to find their peace and comfort. I replay that day over and over in my head. He was from Europe, and we were just a few months shy of our second year anniversary. I met him three months after coming out of the most toxic relationship I had ever been in. I was so emotionally beat down, that I never thought I could possibly meet someone who could make my heart whole again. He built my confidence and self esteem back up, healed my heart so much it was overflowing with love for this man. He took me back home to meet his friends and family and we spent a wonderful two weeks there. I asked the one question that I, even at that period of time, did not want to hear the answer to. I saw him weeks later to pick up my belongings from his place and he told me that he lied to me. In every person I date, I look for him and never find that person who touched a part of my soul no one else has. Then a part of me wonders, will I even want him back once he does. Luckily for me, I am able to lose all contact with him. This blog really helps to reassure that no matter how bad you hurt, time really does heal all. Meng December 15, 2016 at 11:21 pm Hi Mei,I am going through the exact same situation as u. I am working overseas and he, on the other hand, committed to his family business. We have plan to get married in 2 years time and I will move back and settle down in our hometown. Everything was good until I suspected him seeing someone else but he was telling me there was nothing between them so I have chosen to trust him. But 2 months down the road, I too, became scared and anxious, whenever he was not replying my text msges, I will start thinking nonsense. So we had arguments and once again, I saw their pics in his cell phone when we met again. He felt very sorry and just remained silent. After a temporarily break, i figured I can forgive and forget, hence I asked for reconciliation but he insisted of breaking up. He has changed, he has been a really good man but now he seems rebellious. For now, I know I have to let him go, not just because I have no choice, but I think he really wanted this break. I hope that he will find himself again and focus on his career. I am moving on but at the same time having faith that we will meet again one day. Raya December 6, 2016 at 8:18 am This is beautiful. My ex and I have had an on-and-off relationship for what would have been two years together. Every time we had broken up was because he felt very insecure about himself and his future. He has wanted to join the Marines but there were a bunch of things that prevented him from actually joining. Our last breakup was the breaking point. We are both will come back to you in love with each other and he even considers me his soulmate. The break up was hard on both of us and even harder on me because of course I want to support and motivate him. But he wanted to become a man and figure his life out. He told me that he loves me and he will find me and come to me when he is ready. He says he believes will come back to you no matter what we will get get married but he needs time to find who he is. I hope he does because he is my soulmate and best friend. A year later, I was still depressed and wanted to get over him. I started dating one of my best friends. I was 16 and wanted out of my house so I got engaged to merry him. Moved out, been married to him for 15 years now with 3 children. It has been the will come back to you marriage ever. This past August my first love found me. All those feeling came rolling in. When we first saw each other again, the connection was amazing. I have already fell out of love with my husband but he had asked me to give him another chance. My first love and I went seperate ways so I can try to work on my marriage. All I do is want to be with my first love. I am scared of hurting anyone. Everything was going great one day he just told me that I was amazing an he loves an always will love me but he had things to fix an that was the last time we talked. Sometimes I seat an wonder what I did wrong or what he needed to fix. Lola November 21, 2016 at 7:07 am My ex broke up with me after 3 years together because he lost feelings. Now he never told me this for two months when we were together I thought everything was great, his behavior did not change. So later in Ohio ct ober he went out of state when he met a girl. He exchanged number with herwhen he came back he did not me anything for a week. I felt something was wrong but I brushed it off stupid move. After that he broke up with me to pursuit the other girl, he told me because I asked for the truth. During our relationship I had some insecurities, jealousy, and anger problem only because I was hurt in the past. I also beleive I pushed him away but I showed him how much I loved him. He has a complex character that I understood. Many people would call him cold but he is just a realist. Anybody with similar story and advice. I really want him back but in the mean I am focusing on myself and I have gotten a lot better for me. I want to show him that I did but he deleted me off facebook because of a mistake and we no longer talk. He was my confindante and always gave me good advice on everything. In a moment of vulnerability I kissed him and later regretted it. I began to really fall for my him, I loved his character, humour and enjoyed his company. But breaking up with my bf was so difficult because I loved him too despite his mistreatment. My bf found out about the kiss will come back to you our relationship went south. My neighbour friend finally gave up on pursuing me after two years and moved to another province. A year later I finally broke up with my bf but I then began to really miss my neighbour friend at that time he had moved on, got a new gf and new job. He came, we spoke and he told me he was with someone now and said that I needed time to heal from my previous relationship. I knew he was right because I was still hurting from the breakup with my bf but that not what I wanted to hear. I told him I was hurt by him saying that. He left and went back to his new province. He called me a couple of months ago but I let it go to voicemail. But at the same time he had been cheating continously. I loathe myself for not giving him a chance at this point. I felt tempted to text him yesterday but I held back. He was really committed to me even found the promise ring to put on me. After I pleaded for another chance after I broke his trust of leaving him every time I get upset 4times total but we get back the next will come back to you or two afterwardwe are 4hrs long distance apart which is not a big problem because we could still see each other often when we can. I heard of no contact rule as well can this still apply to my situation. We have alot of common interests and have done so much traveling together in just short time. He motivated me so much to be a better version of myself, I am working on myself, I have work, online school for my degree, gym and other hobbies I would do to distract myself. I have all the qualities he needed in a woman to be married to I am 26 he is 28 but I have flaws and anger that controls my actions. What is my chance of getting back with my ex. That being with him will make him miserable… We were both so young when we started dating, i had just turned 17 and he was 18 still a virgin. That was our first break up and we ended back together. Before we know it a year goes by we are homeless and we have a cat and a dog together. I say we because at the moment we are still living together. Will come back to you see, the man i find myself cherishing has come back, but neither of us are ready to face the matter of the distance between us in a serious relationship, despite having mutually confessed to each other that the love is still will come back to you. He told me he loved me after our 2. It felt so good to hear from him. LiFe can go on, as hard as it may seem when you are letting him go. I let my anxiety, past and insecurities ruin it. I know i need to work through my anxiety and triggers and why i cause turmoil i just hope he misses me. Andi November 4, 2016 at 6:55 am I completely relate to this. The same thing happened to me. I sabotage my own relationships too. I would focus on yourself and working on and through your anxieties and insecurities. But one thing that I have been focused on is the guilt and will come back to you myself and feeling so bad that I ruined the relationship. All relationships are two sided. It all starts with forgiving yourself and being determined to be the best version of you. Not for him, but for you and because you deserve it. Let that happiness come from within and find it there and love will find you. This is what I am learning through my similar experience. Sabrina December 1, 2016 at 8:27 pm Hi Allie, may I suggest you get to the root of your problem first. If not, the unidentified issues you have will only become a part of anyone else that you bring into your life. I sent another text asking if will come back to you was feeling better from the flu and he replied and said yes, he was feeling better. I tried to engage in a friendly and light conversation and he just ignored everything after that. So i finally decided to let him go. E September 15, 2016 at 7:57 am Its crazy because i literally did it all. The angery messages, i even called him to help me through the news of my aunt BeCause he was the only person wHo knows about it here at school. After reading this, i really feel as thOugh i gotta Let him focus on himself and not expect much from him. He went back to his friend after their falling off. Just gotta put it in Gods Hands. S September 1, 2016 at 7:44 pm ThRee years ago I fell mutualky in love with a man. We both had dreams the noght nefore we met that were the same. He had been married to someone Who had Been madly in live wiTh somebody else and she cheated on Him in a very massive affair, but due to Having Will come back to you together, he had stayed. Also, she fidnt want to go out and work. She did not Want to have to be independent. So when we fell in love I decided that he needEd space to figute things out. Anyway, I tomd him to see a therapist and I told him I was just going to go on a long vacation and put no pRessUre on him. He probably should have made his escape Duribg heR long affiar but he wasnt financially aBle to at that time. I left The state for 3 months and though it was painfully hard to doAvoided texting or calling for almost two months. I wanted him to see with hos own heart, mInd, body, soul…what was real. It was the most difficuLt thing I had ever done in my life, but…by the time the three months passrd he had zero doubt that he was in a false marriage. He had been just enduring And living a lie fir many years. Plus dealing with infidelity and control issues. And the kids are more at ease. I did not need to beg, plEaD, chase or manipulate anyThing. We have done mistakes in the past, I done more mistakes than him to be honest but recently I just kept doing little things that bothered him to the point of breaking up with me. In the beginning of our relationship I kissed two guys but I changed and I never did it again but not he seems to not trust me and everything I do was wrong. I have said sorry many times after the break up but nothing. We been broken up for 3 months already but I have tried to be friends with him for two months because he agreed to it. In those two months he was somewhat hurtful. He will mention that he will not go back with me. Now after two months of trying to get back with him as friends I went into the no contact. Now he came back 2 days ago telling me he wants to take of his name out of apartment lease. He helped by putting his name in the lease for my apartment. I have been living alone, the contract expires next year June but he is acting like a jerk, He told me to start looking for something because he will take him name of the lease in January. I thought he would come back but not like this. He came back in a negative way. He and I were together since 2006 we were still in high school I loved him dearly in 2013 I start nursing school and he will come back to you me for 9 months worst nine months of my life then he comes back after me pleading and begging every thing was great we start looking for us a house together and so on we found one get the house and start remodeling together but then his friends got in the way I started complaining and arguing more and more everyday he became distant and more to his friends. He started partying more and not coming home from his friends house so around June I left. That was never what I wanted I wanted him to come after me what do i do now. He says that I argued to much for him and I took the fire out of our relationship. Without knowing all of the details or his side ill say Although you love him, it sounds as if he has some maturing to do. It doesnt sound as though there is good communication with him or he would have given you the explanation that he felt you were nagging,etc. As a stranger, my advice would be to carry on as though the relationShip is Over. Stop chasing him or expecting anything from him, including things for the baby. Just go about things iN a positive mood on your own and with your support system. Do not let this sItuation rob you of the joys of this huge time in your life. Try to find comfort in the advice fRom this article. Stress wiLl make things Worse. But you cant hold your breath or expect it. I truly hope things work out for you. Gras2004 August 15, 2016 at 9:40 am ok so this relationship started in h. But like you I think of him everyday secretly and feel that I was confused as to what love is. But like you I think is it obsession or fantasy or is this really wjat love feels like. So I met my dh and we married with children. Years later social media brought us together we met as did other hs friends but the chemistry was still there after all those years. Jenn August 6, 2016 at 12:40 pm Help. Its been a mOnth since my boyfriend of 11mos broke up. I broke another promise that meant so much to him. Then i got so worried i may lose him. So i started asking questions that drove him To just break it off. By the way, he has blocked me on his phone, only contact is email or faceboOk message. Valentina August 11, 2016 at 1:21 pm Hey girl, i feel your pain. He obviously had genuine feelings for you so you can get him back. But u have to make him miss u. In my experience it takes about 2 months. Guys need time for the brain to catch up with their hearts. I have been having misunderstanding with my husband which leads to divorce some mouths ago, But i was unable to move on with my life because i have so much love for my husband and my kid love him too. I heard about iyareyaresolutiontemple gmail. Pratricia July will come back to you, 2016 at 8:06 am My husband and I have been together for about five years. I got mad and cursed him out and left. He said that I am jealous and insecure which is a recurring theme in our arguments. CryStAl July 20, 2016 at 9:28 pm I met this great guy at a social event and felL in love wIth him after two weeks. He goy scared and told me that he loved talking to me and it felt like we have known each other for years. He told me he wants to take care of his parents and fOcus on his family. I told him i support him in everythIng. We would talk tIll 5 am everyday and sleep was Never an optioN. He told me he loved me And that he wanted to marry me, but later he broke up with me telling me that i was giving the RelatioNship more than he can give at the time and that i deserve better and that he doesnt want to hurt me. He meNtioned he cant see himself settling Down and that he is too young to be in a relationship. Ive never veen so heArtbroken in my lIfe. Since then he has ignored me and unfollowed me on instagram. I dont Understand how we can go from will come back to you being so in love to hil cutting me off. I still love hom so much and i miss him more than i thOught i ever would. I feel like he is the one for me. We did talk about our timing is off, but he Still hasnt come back to me. So ladies what advice Do you have for me. This was the second time around us trying to make things work. We took different steps and approaches as to how to better communicate and show our love for one another. He has been in my life for seven years now so of course we know everything about one another. We broke up once in February for two months and got back together in May and that is when we took those different approaches. He wanted to start listening to marriage podcasts at least once or twice a week and discused them with one another talking about how it relates to our relationship and how we can better ourselves etc we began to communicate openly and honestly not holding anything back and the second time around I honestly felt as if we were getting better and he thought the same. Than last Saturday morning a switch or something flicked. My heart dropped and the tears flew. He wants to eventually date but will always love and want me. He wants to be single and free. He never truly had a positive thought about relationships until me. He feels like i am not just another person who is in my life to help will come back to you learn and grow. Its something much more profound than that. He still wants to take me to dinner and do things we normally would. I told him i will not be hIs toy and not hust another girl to him he told me not to let myself be than. I have made it clear if he is dAting others i cant be arouns and he aaid what if im dating you. None of this makes sense i need advice. Sha sha July will come back to you, 2016 at 3:48 pm Hi. I am not sure where you are this week but I understand because I am in something similar but with a child with my ex husnand so it makes it harder. Dont always be available and find other intererst with friends and family. He should come back to you the way you deserve and unfortunately some men dont realize that until months sometimes years later. So if he wants space give it to him and believe me he will come back eventually, just hopefully you are still available but thats the risk he is willing to take. What ever you do dont put your will come back to you on hold. I am so glad that i am not alone in this complicated but true love. When i was 15, i met this boy at a grocery store. It took one look at each other and we were deeply in love. He was my summer love…we dated for 3 months and then he broke up with me because he simply wasnt ready for a relationship at the age of 18. I was young but my heart broke into pieces. We were both in relationships but we quickly broke them off to be together. He was tired of me being that way so he gave up on making things right. We had a terrible year together and i believe we are both guilty of it. But I ended up finding attention elsewhere and cheathed on the love of my life. I was even more heart broken…i wanted to take my life because living without him seemed impossible. He came back to me 3 years later for about a month but he left me heartbroken once again because his family anf friends didnt approve of us being together. I did find another man who loved me the way i was and we are still together but not a day goes by that i dont think of my ex fiance. This time, he wants to make things right and promises not to push me away even if i get sick again. He said his life is not complete without me. And i feel the same way but i am afraid that it may not work out between us just like the previous 2 times. But my brain tells me to stay with my current boyfriend because he never really hurt me in any way. But im not in love with him like i am with my ex fiance. Vanessa June 28, 2016 at 9:50 pm I think you should Leave your current bf. Regatd if you and your ex fiance work it Out you should let your Boyfriend find someone who loves him And does not second guess thier feelings for him. No one deserVeS to be a placeholdeR or fill a void becuase You dont want to be lonely or miss out. Let him go and you can focus on yourself and figure out your Feelings for your ex fiance. Take a break and allow yourself to be happy on will come back to you own. Happiness is dependent on oneself. And if uou end up with uoir ex Fiance great. Will come back to you you may meet someone eLse who you fall madly on love with and u wont will come back to you bRinGing along aNy emotional baggage. Either way leave your bf, if u dont feel like hes the one dont waste his tIme or yours. June 18, 2016 at 5:47 pm The strength is inspiring. I was in an up and down relationship for 7 years. I loved a man and completely devoted myself to him. He did not work but I supported him and our 2 children. I caught him Internet cheating phone cheating several times but always forgave him. He abused me mentally and physically. He spent a short time in prison and my loyalty seemed to bring us closer together but lasted 6 months after he was home then he said he wanted to be single. Sure I was far from perfect often overwhelmed with responsibility and stressed financially I was a nag. He came back to me but still did not treat me right. His brother saw my pain and confessed at he was in love with me. I brushed his advances off and never made mention of it. As time passed he occasionally would make a move but I was not interested. He begged me to try something with him as he grouped me. Several months later the brother had many failed attempts of contacting me so messaged me on fb. I responded as he owed me money. He then sent me pictures of that day I had forgotten and regretted. He then asked me for more pics which I responded with disgust he was trying to blackmail me. So as a person who does not hide things I neglected to delete the convo and my ex saw everything. We have been broken up for over a year. I desperately want to be with him I always loved him never his brother. He at times tells me he misses me and loves me then flips and says we will never be together. He started seeing a young girl then after a few months came to me crying that he missed me loved me and needed time. He stayed for months then left then came back now went back to the girl. I need some advice this cycle is destroying me. I do not believe we can ever get past the past. I know I made a mistake but I regret it never did it again have not been with anyone else and wish for forgiveness at least for the sake of our kids who are likely equally confused. Anne johnson June 5, 2016 at 12:46 pm My bf of 1 year broke up with me cause his family mostly his mom didnt like me. He seems fine n happy n even started talking to this new girl but his cloae friends hes hurting just trying to cover it up and that he will come back just give him time but idk do u think he will or no. But I still love him and hope that he will come back but Idk. Helen Black March 19, 2016 at 5:55 pm I need your opinion, my ex boyfriend and I separated after a year and half. We both loved each other so much got along great until I mentioned us living together. I knew he had a terrible marriage with his ex wife she took everything from him and destroyed his idea of marriage but that was eight years prior to us. I still love him dearly but I know that I need him to come to me and I feel there is nothing I can do. The last time we talked he said he is screwed up emotionally and that I deserve better. His mother said he still has our pictures in his living room and bedroom and my toothbrush in the bathroom but why if he makes no attempts in trying to contact me. I am so confused with everything. We met once, spoke and text m most everyday, then stopped. He said his life is complicated. Three years later in January 2016, he starting calling me again. We talked and text for a week and again stopped. In March 2016, he started calling me and texting me everyday for the past 2 weeks. In our conversation, we talk about family and kids. We started sexting and now he says, although he likes the ideas, but if we could slow it down. It all comes down to what we want to do and reality then his. And talks about his ex wife and kids that are driving him crazy along will come back to you everything else. I know he has drama with her and his kids argue and fight with her. The way he is with her us the way the kids are with her. He has 2 kids I raised that would call me mommy and all. He has full custody of because their mom signed over her rights. Long story short we lived with his parents they will always be involved in my relationship, there was no trust I wanted babies, he had a vasectomy. He cheated on me like 2-3 times everytime we would break up which now was the 3rd time he will go and find himself another girlfriend. Like if our love never meant anything to him. Meanwhile I would mourn my break up and be super down missing my family. Well this is the longest time we have been separated. Just im confused a little here. I feel like everytime I try to move on he comes back right away n gets me back. Kimberly June 14, 2016 at 9:22 pm He treated you horribly. He will never treat you with respect unless you respect yourself. Because I went through hell with my hubby before he decided to settle down. So, if he is serious about you and making you his women…let him prove it time and time againg before you decide on anything, including responding to his e-mails. Because if that were true you would be with them right now and not posting about missing them. Bianca February 16, 2016 at 5:46 pm I was with this guy for 2 years now. And we kinda had a rocky relationship, then he broke up with me the end of 2014, but I would still hit him up and we would see each other. I was a fool and kept hitting him up. Then around August 2015 we got into a huge argument and cut off communication. The day before Christmas we got into a other argument and he left me again. I was crying for a second chance and begging but he still wanted nothing to do with me. A few weeks later I notice he blocked me on snapchat. And I hit him up asking why did you block me. Started dating this guy a while ago who was planning on moving to the other side of the world to travel. Well, we accidentally fell in love and it got serious. This last year has been so much fun with him. I do not regret our time together or regret falling in love but its so sad and hurts that its come to end. I just wish him every happiness on his adventures and hope that his travels bring us on the same path again one day in the future whenever that will be. Until then, I am going to concentrate on me and my friends and having my own adventures. He broke up with me because he says he has to fix his family and he needs to do him. I told him km trying to understand and that I would wait for him but he never answered me. What do u think is going to happen. Karen January 28, 2016 at 8:31 am Thank you for this. Life is complicated, the world is complicated, people are complicated. I appreciate your much more realistic viewpoint. Brandon December 17, 2015 at 7:24 am I fell in love with a guy in an open relationship, something I never imagined would happen. I saw him over over the span of a month. We texted often between the first time we met and the second time. I had never felt such a connection to anyone before. Our conversation just felt so natural and easy and our body language said the same. I respected his words and said I would not interfere. I thought I would be ok but he consumes my thoughts. Part of me thinks because of the connection I felt with will come back to you like I never have before that we are meant to be. I let him go and we are on friendly terms so the choice is his. That girl dumped him and he dated you as a rebound and dumped you as soon as she came back. This has happened to me and the worse thing I was carrying his child. You deserve someone that knows your worth. You are no second option or just in case. Maureen December 13, 2015 at 11:51 am MissingHim please know that you are not alone. I am in the exact same situation. Hopeful that each day I give him space he is taking the time to really consider a long term commitment to us. The sad reality being that this may truly be the end my daily sabotaging thoughts. December 4, 2015 at 8:36 am This rings will come back to you here. We would text for hours everyday, echanging silly jokes to sharing deep thoughts and life stories. When we would meet, everything was just easy. At first, we were both seeing other people so it was easy to keep it friendly. But when I became available, flirting started and I grew very attached to him and him to me. We thought we could keep everything under control though, until one day we went too far. We both felt awful and decided to stop seeing each other and writing for a while. Although we both seem unable to stay away from one another, he wants to see where things go with the person he is seeing, even if things are not so good at the moment. He will be honest with her and if she can forgive him, he wants to carry out this story and see where it leads. Even though it breaks my heart, I can only like him more for that. I like that he does not give up just because things are rough and that he is honest enough and has enough integrity to tell her what happened. If things work out for them, then I can only be happy that such a good person has found love. Maybe he will end up being a friend, maybe one day timing will be right for us. But if he is supposed to be mine, he will come back, that I know. MissingHim December 1, 2015 at 7:38 am I started dating the love of my life three years ago. I had a rough breakup prior, he was there for me, and we kind of just hit it off. After 3 months now its Septemberwe kind of just drifted, he did his thing, I did mine. We both started seeing other people. Come December, he randomly texted me essentially confessing his will come back to you for me, and that he was a fool for letting me go, but i was already happyily or so I thought with another man. Requested we be friends, so forward we went. Come May, I broke up with the other man Will come back to you was with, and will come back to you man I love did likewise with the girl he was with. By June we were so connected we made our relationship official again. The last week I could tell something was off though, and he finally broke down, and told me. He was leaving me, we could still be friends. He said he loved me, and he always will, but he needs to figure himself out before he tries to figure us out. That he needs to Be himself again before he can bring someone into it with him. We are now taking a break, which I am having an extremely hard time coping with. When we speak on the phone we live 600 miles apart he will still say I love you first before hanging up. My thought process is if you truly love someone As he claims why would you risk losing that person. Am I a fool for stepping back, trying to keep my boundaries and waiting for him. Kimberly June 14, 2016 at 9:39 pm Way back in the day I was going through this same exact thing. I thought the connection was great, as did he. So after I told him that he would still contact me. Move on with your life see other people. Lily November 1, 2015 at 2:26 am This is an amazing article…. I only dated this boy for 6 months but in they were enough to fall harder than ever. And well I am really emotional and always told him he should be sweeter and try and put more effort but I think that only pushed him away. I know he cares for me and I hope God has it in his plans to see us back but I agree with your article in that I need to keep living. I am going to take your advise and no clingy text messages just a clean cut. Thank you for writing this lovely piece of work. Vanessa May 1, 2016 at 5:16 pm Hm haha I am from the Netherlands. I think its best for you to stay here enjoy your time and I think Its better to move on from him for now. The last time I saw him, he said he needed time to sort through everything going on in his life — job, money, health, relationship. He felt pressure to move in together. But he said he would contact me and I believed him. I have never threatened him, burned up his phone with calls or texts. I was seeing a guy for 2 years and we were very happy. Recently, he has just cut off all contact. It went from him telling me he loved me, that he misses me to just not hearing from him anymore. And, if he does call wait atleast an hour to respond. Keep everything cool and on the surface. This will show that you are confident, you know what you want and you lived without him this long, hell, you can go longer…dueces. September 21, 2015 at 11:44 pm I have been in love with my best friend on and off for 3 years. We were the closest of friends and always relied on each other to get through the hard times. He was dating this girl on and off for a year they would date for about 6 weeks then she would call it off on the proviso that they would stay friends. I watched her choose her career over him multiple times and every time she broke his heart I was there for him. In January this year they finally called it quits when she chose a job in a different city and left him behind, again. He and I began sleeping together and over the course of the year began dating. He told me and everyone around him that I made him happy and that this was easy and meant to be. He then broke up with me, but promised that I could never be replaced. I have never seen someone so upset as when he left my house that day and I have never felt so alone or empty. All of our friends, both mutual and not say they were sad to hear about the breakup and know he feels terrible. Everyone tells us we are meant to be, what should I do. Trisha October 13, 2015 at 7:29 am Well need advice on my relationship which ended a week ago…basically i knew this guy already but we werent really close to eachother…to will come back to you time we meet eachother is through events or parties and his my cousins friend so when my cousin comes to my area i would come and see my cousin at his house…back in 2014 january there was a party which i attened and from there my ex started to like me and being really nice to me and he started to ask who my friends where so i told him who and the next day he called my best friend only to tell her how much he wants to be with me and how he would make me happy, asking about my behaviour if am rude ect then he got my number we started to get eachother better everyday talking on the phone and our first date was on valentine was really nice and romatic i felt immediately in love i knew i found my soul mate and from there we began our relationship…he brougjt me around his family and am so close to his sisters they always have my back when we argue. He was persistent and I figured that since we work together, go to school together, and go to the same program that I guess I could give it a try. We started dating and it took me a while to open up to him but in time I saw him for who he was and he loved me for who i was. His lived above the ground and I was very much grounded…he ended up lifting me off the ground and I brought him closer to the ground…we met on an equal level. I loved him so much and felt that our imperfections are what made us perfect in every way. We were younger and our love was so great, but it came to an end. I knew I needed to distance myself so I did, but he kept getting closer and i pushed away more. Obviously we should have tried to work our differences out, but I feel like maybe we should take this time apart and see where things end up. At first, it may seem like the days are long and the nights are unbearable, but just know God is always there watching over you and keeping you. He will help you get over this. Vekit June 17, 2015 at 10:41 am This applied to both women and men, I dated this woman we clicked so every levels, sex is awesome, synergy is all there. But she was always around when I needed. I asked her if she could consider what should I do to make her forgive and take me back. She said she would still gave me chances maybe because due to sympathyshe believed that me and herwe are each other half. Now I dont know what to do, keep calling her everyday or no contact. We live further apart 1 and 30 min flight. So there is no chance I could see her weekly and daily. If she ever come back to me, then I called it luckiest day of my life. If not I woukd say I learn the hardest lesson ever in my life. September 30, 2015 at 9:35 pm I had met up with my ex from high school. He told me he still loved me after 33 years. He was getting divorced had the lawyer, papers, money paid out. We had a great time, like time stood still. He came and we moved my stuff to his home state. Waiting on the divorce to be final. Which he decided years before we even talked. I have been divorced over 10 years. I stayed with my friends who moved there also. He wanted to buy me will come back to you engagement ring I declined. He had to end it before we could start our life. Then something changed 1 year later. Now 3 years later he is still with her telling me he loves me not her. It will be 4 years very shortly. I never thought I would be in this situation. I feel very betrayed, and I feel very upset for her. I feel we are both pawns in his game. He has no respect for her, then I truly wonder if I should believe anything he says. We will come back to you to be married a long time ago. I should have followed my heart and not my mothers demands. Pinning him in a corner for answers is not the right way to deal with this. I need to know the correct tools to use to get to the bottom of what he is thinking or not any advice I am ready for it. My heart is so broken, a kick in the stomach I can handle. Kimberly June 14, 2016 at 10:19 pm Vekit if you truly feel that girl was the one for you, show her. If you are truly a changed man, prove it to her. So with dat out I waa not willing to settle for seconds and once I got over the hurt I js left him. It was about three months later his brother who works with me came begging me to meet with him and I agreed to after the 6th month which by this time I got engaged to someone I was not really inlove with but just thought it wld help me get over the other one quickly and beside I wntd to be a married women and hve my own family. Now after meeting with my ex him nd I hve made up and he gota divorce to his wife but we dont live together yet will come back to you apparently his tryna fight for full custody for his kids but he dnt wna leave his kids with her cause she wants to take them outta creche nd school if she moves out his area, so I hve somewhat still distanced myself because I love him but I dont wna have my heart broken like that again. He tells me however to fall for him as he has for me. The thing I struggle with is he is living under the same roof with his ex wife nd kids but he apparently sleeps in another room nd has not touched his wife since his son was conceived which is just over a yr ago. I hve my doubts on that one. But, not everyone could actually show you divorce papers and move out. For all you know he could be eating her out every night. Tell him if he is serious about you leave that house. He can still fight for custody and not be there. Actions speaks louder than words. You teach people how to treat you. But my question is how much time is enough time for him to come around. I feel like the more time he has without me he might find someone or whatever the case is. First, I was the best girlfriend to whoever I am with. And, disappear as if you never met him. You are a virgin and nowadays that is extremely hard to find. But, sweetheart, please save that for someone who is going to treat you like a queen and give you the world. Not someone who barely wants you. Or someone who is distancing himself so that you can feel guilty into giving him your virginity. Wait for that special someone. October 1, 2014 at 7:41 pm I do love this post Ms. After chatting day by day,he asked me if i give him my ph number and i did. We moved to talk on phone only and we shared our environment,our childhood,our family and so on. I knew almost all of his biography because he told me without asking by myself. But,we connected by phone almost the whole day. He told me all of things he doing at the time. To be short, i believed he was real to me and he really used to love me. By the way, he is studying in Thailand. Before he went to there, we had met for two times face to face and his behaviors was the same like earlier at the time. But,in about two weeks later, he changed and did unbelievable things on me. So, i stayed by keeping silent and only contact when he call. During that times, we also fighted for the little things, but i still kept in contact after that. I thought we had nothing wrong things but the situation is changed when he moved to Thainland for his study. So, i was very sad and thought he was not loved me anymore and decided to cut off all connection with him. After break up to this day, it was about one month and nothing has happened. Will I have the chance to get him. It seems like you guys had a phone relationship for a couple of weeks or even months and then he lost contact because he was really living another life. Find a real man whom you can interact with on a daily basis; not just via phone. Someone who you can experience true intimacy with. But, someone who you can actually see and spend quality time with. That other guy could have been telling you anything. Someone who will want to be with you and see you; not just have a couple of phone conversations and then leave. So I went against my own wishes and start dating this guy, why, because he was a church goin man, and he knows God. We meet in February of last year, start dating in March. We been off and on until October of last year. So because of him bringing his past in our future caused me to have hate in my heart for him for that, but I still loved him. So I let him, we got married in April, and being doing ok, moved to another state an started a new life. But last night I saw his wallet laying there, and yes, I went in it, not looking for and upset, but he tends to keep his pay a secret at times, so I wanted to see why. Thanks in advance for even taking the time to read this. Ebony August 20, 2014 at 9:57 am I am witness to this. This has happened to me will come back to you when I say the feeling, the love is unexplainable it really is. We have been reunited, our love is stronger and unconditional and we owe it all to God. Kim definitely knows What she talking bout. Jai August 19, 2014 at 11:36 pm I so appreciate this article it had me in tears. This was the story of my life these past two months. Our connection was so strong, so surreal that it was a bit frightening, but in a good way. The relationship seem to be everything we both claim we ever wanted. Finally, one Saturday morning he in boxed me and ask if I would call him after hours of texting back and forth. I returned my number so he could do the calling. He did, it was as if we had known each other for 20 years. Sincerely, we loved and enjoyed this beautiful energy of love we shared. He was so happy and grateful and so was I. I felt proud to walk beside this man. He was my King and I knew this with all my heart. Together we were like a ray of sun shine in the morning light and everything smiled upon us. Suddenly, he began to pull back, pushing me further and further away then eventually asking if we could just be friends…I had to shut it all the way down in order to keep myself on a positive path. Thank you so much Kimberly Elise for the article. In my head, you and I are friends smile. I believe they do this in fear. They feel as if they found the right one, but just like Kim E. My husband did the same; he pulled away for months and tested the waters. He came back to me crying and begging for me to take him back. Back to the subject, sometimes it takes months, but with some it may take years. It seems your ex really loved you at some point. Believe me that love he felt will resurface, no matter how hard he tries to repress it. I was always mad at him for having the wrong priorities, ones that seemed to involve his future, not mine. He wanted this, he wanted that, what was important to him. We would eventually get them together. He left because of my anger and I was angry because his love seemed to involve putting himself first. I would love it if he came and said to me that he thought about all of the things I wanted and we should work on making it happen. For someone that says he wanted to marry me and make a future with me, I feel left in the dark, alone. Your stories have inspired me because sometimes I think 2 people truly do love each other and that they are just at 2 different places when they are together. I pray that he and I get on the same page. I love him with all of my heart and I miss him every day. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. All I wanted was a future with him, a house and happiness. Claudia Almaraz May 2, 2017 at 8:45 pm I can resonate with you Jai. I also met this amazing man on line. We been going back and fourth for about a year and a half. Every time we get close he pulls away. In February I let him go and two months later he reached out to me. May 3, 2017 at 1:23 pm Hi Jai. We had a great connection this went on and off for a year and half as he kept pulling away. No calls no textingno contactthen he came back. Sonette Alexis August 19, 2014 at 8:33 pm Just recently I had to let my love go. He chose to let go in order to get himself right. You see I had made it clear to him that I made up my mind to serve God truly and let my life be clean, so on this note he wanted to go and work on himself. It was a long 12 hours break lol but we are back on track. He knew what he wanted and what is most valuable to him; serving God in truth. I never had anyone doing something like that for me. No greater love as any man than e lays down his life for another. Sharika August 19, 2014 at 6:39 pm Such a great and encouraging post. I just recently let go of my love and I truly believe that if we are meant to be it will happen. So in the mean time and between time I am going to live my life and be thankful for the time and love we shared together. Diedra Boyd August 19, 2014 at 2:38 pm Hi Kimberly, M name is Diedra, and before I ask my questions I just want to let you know your work is amazing and you inspire me in so many ways. If your first acting role involves you being nudes, should i take. Who do I revolve myself around in the acting industry. For me falling in love is rare, so when I found this guy two and a half years ago I jumped in head first. Even though we were long distance I was willing to make it work. When we are together, our level of our togetherness is undeniable. He is definitely someone I could spend the rest of my life with, however in the last year he has committed himself to his career only. This leaves me with a whole heart full of love for him and nowhere for it to go. I understand his situation and I wish the best for him but I cannot be satisfied with only half of him. August 19, 2014 at 11:46 am Such good advice…. I recently connected with a guy from my mid 20s, over a decade later. Hoping that will come back to you second time around is the real thing. August 19, 2014 at 10:35 am I am so glad I saw this information I have debated for months whether or not to leave my man. I have rode a rollercoaster for 2 years. He is a great guy however he does not want to remarry. Which creates conflict between us. I am going to move on if it is meant it will happen. I love him very much and he said he loves me. So if we part on very good terms who knows what the future may hold…. Thanks for confirming what I already felt. Chevon August 19, 2014 at 10:10 am This article is exactly what I needed today. Gabriella Garcia April 30, 2017 at 12:43 pm This post has been good for me. I thank God that I found people that are going through the same thing. I am currently going through a breakup, we love each other very much. We once had a healthy relationship, but things have been getting hard for us for the past couple of months. We were the best thing that happenned in each others life. We really wish it can work out somewhere in the future. Never been on a date with himnever sat down and had dinner with this man. A year and the only place we have been is my bed, hotel rooms. I feel so stupid,just like a booty call. Its better to know now than waste 20 years sleeping with him, and you find later that all he ever wanted was a booty call relationship. Also, me knowing him I know he is trying to find himself and financially trying to make a living. He once mentioned marriage and now I feel like he hates me presence. I always pictured me marrying him. Things will surprisingly get better. Pray and ask God to give you strength to let go. Also, time heals most everything; give it time, time. A Minnesota native, Elise has starred in such notable films as Dope, The Manchurian Candidate, and Set It Off. In 2017, she will appear in Death Wish starring Bruce Willis. I want to create a space for women to feel happy being completely free to shine will come back to you within.

Gabriella Garcia April 30, 2017 at 12:43 pm This post has been good for me. No cheating, no lying, no disrespect or abuse of any kind. I have all the qualities he needed in a woman to be married to I am 26 he is 28 but I have flaws and anger that controls my actions. I knew I wanted to be with him. By the next day, he told me he needed to move out, work on himself, live on his own and that he couldnt commit to a relationship. So I met my dh and we married with children. But like you I think of him everyday secretly and feel that I was confused as to what love is. Now they want to know little more like what happened, what went wrong with their profiles on which you said it's look good match. Stop chasing him or expecting anything from him, including things for the baby. His house sold in early January 2016.